Erich1B wrote:However, there is no way in H E L L that my wife would do this - LOL.
That's funny.
You have to take baby steps.
Get a tent with mostly mesh and preferably two doors.
Sleep in that w/her w/o the rain fly on.
Then open your door and leave it open.
Then open her door and leave it open.
Then say "honey, lookie... we don't even need the tent".
Good luck
(if she's a girlie girl though... just give up)
(got my wife to go snowshoeing overnight this year... thought
that would never happen... so.. it's perhaps possible)
Other tact would be to just conveniently "forget" the tent poles.

